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Have you ever wanted to stop the preacher in the middle of the sermon and ask a question? If so, a small group is for you! In a small group you can ask questions about what you don't understand and be confident that the Bible will be put on the simplest level so that anyone can understand it. Typically, a facilitator guides a Bible-centered discussion in which there are no dry theology lectures, no arguments over controversial issues, and no "churchy" language. Instead, there are just regular folks like you talking about how Jesus and the Bible make a difference in their lives.
Small groups tend to become a type of family unit within the larger church setting. They help connect up relationally and help us form close
relationships that are essential for growing in Christ. Folks in small groups are not left on the "fringes" to experience the demands and challenges of life on their own, rather they experience all the fun, support, love, and friendship of a spiritual family.
In a small group, you will learn to participate in prayer by having a conversation together with God. No one is put on the spot to pray, but as
you become more comfortable, you'll be able to pray sentence prayers and join in. We all face a diverse set of circumstance in life, and it is good to know that we have friends who are committed to praying for us on a regular basis. Prayer changes things…and this has certainly been true in small groups.
When you face a season of crisis, change, or stress, support naturally starts through your small group. You'll discover that your needs and problems are not unique - we're all in the same boat. It helps to know that others are facing similar difficulties or have lived through them and can help us navigate in difficult times. We really do need each other. God never meant for any of us to go it alone in the Christian life. Many people testify that they would not have made it through a difficult time if it hadn't been for the support of their group.
It may be that some of your friends wouldn't be "caught dead" in a church, but you could invite them to your home to hear a common sense, casual presentation about what a personal relationship with Christ is all about. Many times the love and warmth of a home setting breaks through some of the preconceived ideas that unbelievers have about Christianity.
The Bible teaches that every believer is given certain talents or "gifts" to benefit others in the family of God. Unfortunately, most folks remain as Sunday morning spectators all their lives because large group meetings are primarily "sit and listen" situations. As you share and participate in a relaxed small group setting, you'll discover your confidence and self-esteem rising. This will help you at work, at church, and in every other
relationship.
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